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10 Ways To Become More Attractive By Improving

Your Personality

Some of us wonder if people don’t like us.

And others wonder why.

Is it how you look?

Do you smell?

Do you talk too much?

Are you boring?

If you think that attraction boils down to

grooming, fashion, and genetics, you’re

sorely mistaken.

Your personality is just as - if not more

- important than your physical appearance.

Sure, maybe you do need to practice better

hygiene.

But you might also need to practice your social

skills.

No matter what the internet (and society)

might lead you to believe, personal development

does not stop at 25.

Young or old, there is room for improvement

in your life - and there always will be.

Improving yourself will help you lead a more

fulfilling, happier life and it will make

your presence more appealing to others - in

your personal life and your professional life.

Here are some quick tips on how to increase

your attractiveness through personal development.

Number 1 - Practice Your Conversation Skills

You might be an introvert - someone who doesn’t

love socializing - but that’s the only way

you’ll make new friends or grow closer to

the ones you have.

You don’t have to change who you are or

stop taking time for yourself entirely, but

you should make an effort to improve your

social skills.

Positive, open body language will make you

seem more approachable and engaged.

Make eye contact.

Lean forward slightly (while still respecting

others’ personal space).

Smile.

Practice active listening instead of simply

waiting for your turn to talk.

Pay attention to the ideas and emotions that

others communicate with you.

Acknowledge what they have to say, and don’t

interrupt.

Find common ground when striking up a conversation.

Keep a list of icebreakers in your head to

help with small talk.

Instead of talking about the weather, can

you talk about books, movies, or TV shows?

Do you enjoy any local restaurants?

Ask questions, especially when the conversation

seems to be dying down.

Stay on track about something the other person

has shown an interest in.

You can ask them about what they enjoy, what

they think about a certain topic, what they

did recently - but always respect others’

personal space and privacy.

You could be stunning on the outside, but

if these conversation skills don’t come

easily to you, you’ll struggle to achieve

progress in your personal relationships and

your career.

Number 2 - Actively Seek Out Social Settings

If you’re more of an introvert, this one

might seem even more difficult than the previous

point.

But, if you actively avoid people, they’ll

notice.

You risk appearing disinterested in others,

arrogant, rude, and overall unattractive.

So, go out and practice those social skills!

Again, don’t drain yourself too much by

going to parties every weekend, joining a

new book club, and beginning a new relationship

all at once.

Strike a balance in your life between your

precious alone time and the time you give

to others.

The key to this one is actively seeking.

Don’t settle for interactions at the grocery

store, at work, or at school.

Look for opportunities and events to attend.

Ask others out for coffee or if they would

like some company.

As with anything in life, the more you practice,

the better you will be.

Number 3 - Practice Composure, Don’t Panic

Social situations can be stressful.

When your fight or flight response kicks in,

try your best to remain calm.

Even if your heart is racing or you want to

scream, you can take a slow, deep breath,

and continue.

This emotional intelligence and balance will

take practice - but if you can master composure,

others will respect and admire you.

You can talk about your anxieties and concerns

with certain people in your life, but you

shouldn’t emotionally dump on everyone or

let your anger show.

The ability to make decisions with clarity

is an admirable one, and others will find

you more attractive for being able to keep

it together under pressure.

Number 4 - Have No Doubt

A part of being confident is removing self-doubt.

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t reflect

on your decisions or admit your mistakes - it

means that you shed the weight of worrying

about whether you’re good enough.

Removing doubt means being fully aware that

you are smart enough, capable enough, attractive

enough.

Trust your judgment.

Draw from your experiences and knowledge.

Take decisive actions.

Stand up for what needs to be done and then

do it.

These skills will foster your leadership skills

- which is a very attractive trait indeed.

Number 5 - Stay Positive

Gratitude is known to improve the overall

wellbeing of individuals, and it can also

help you reinforce optimism when you’re

with others.

If you can find joy in the finer details of

life, you’ll become an asset rather than

a weight.

Negativity only works to bring you down.

Complaining is unattractive, and pessimism

will drive others away.

If you always complain - and never do anything

about it - you’ll appear helpless and weak.

Positivity and a hopeful attitude are attractive

traits that you can bring into your life with

a little bit of awareness.

Number 6 - Avoid Aggressive Behavior

Are you pushy or controlling?

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist?

Have you been told you micro-manage?

Do you get angry when things don’t go as

planned?

These traits are not attractive.

There are times when you must be assertive,

especially if you’re in a leadership position.

But there is a clear line between assertive

and aggressive.

Anger and the threat of violence are huge

turn-offs -personally and professionally.

Conduct yourself in a manner that respects

others.

If you exhibit brashness or forcefulness,

you’ll find others avoiding you or even

resenting you.

Number 7 - Lighten Up

Some light humor is always appreciated - especially

during an awkward situation - and it shows

that you’re not boring.

If you take life too seriously, you’re setting

yourself up for disappointment when things

don’t go as planned.

Caution can help keep you out of trouble,

but it might also make you seem like a negative

nelly who’s never willing to live life on

the edge.

Take a light-hearted approach to things and

you might just make someone laugh.

There is a balance between humor and dismissiveness

- find the balance and don’t be rude.

One thing you can do to increase the levity

of your conversations is to think about funny

stories you can tell.

People are naturally captivated by storytelling,

and if you can prepare some honest hilarity,

everyone will thank you.

Number 8 - Be Dependable

If you always flake out on plans, change your

mind last minute, or don’t follow through

with your word, people will see you as unreliable.

They’ll stop coming to you for important

things in their lives and they’ll stop sharing

their life with yours.

If you struggle with being dependable, try

practicing consistency in other areas of your

life.

Consistency is about following through regularly.

Develop routines and healthy habits.

Accomplish your goals.

Find success by holding yourself accountable.

Then, others will hold you accountable as

well.

People will be more attracted to you if they

know they can rely on you.

Dependability is an essential quality in a

good friend or partner, so you have to step

up if you want to form long term relationships

in your life.

Number 9 - Be Genuine

If you only pretend to be interested in what

other people have to say, they’ll notice.

Don’t pretend.

Be honest.

Insincerity is a huge turn off that will drive

others away.

Don’t give fake compliments, try to sell

yourself, or act overly confident.

Be the most authentic version of yourself.

You don't have to try to impress others.

The real you is impressive.

This honesty you show yourself will shine

outwards, and others will feel more attracted

to you.

Donâ take stress over what other people think

either - its what you think about yourself

that matters the most.

Number 10 - Live For Yourself

Obviously, don’t completely forget about

other people - they matter too.

But you are the star of your life.

Follow your dreams.

Find your passion.

Be yourself.

What works for other people won’t necessarily

work for you.

So, stop wanting to transfer yourself into

the Instagram feeds and Facebook posts you

see online.

If you worry about what others think about

you (which many people do) you waste

your time chasing the approval of others and

end up feeling empty inside - even after you

get it.

Instead, focus on the things in your life

that bring you joy.

Discover who you are and what you love to

do.

That passion and sense of purpose will attract

others to you.

Creating real change in your life, especially

concerning your personal development, takes

time.

If you focus on your goal to maintain a more

attractive personality, you will achieve it.

As you move through this journey, you’ll

find that being charismatic will become easier

and easier.

Social skills are learned, and your personality

today doesn’t have to be your personality

ten years from now.

Take control of your life, and you’ll find

that others will become drawn to you, respect

your confidence, and admire your passion.

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